I’ve been quiet here for a long while, not because I didn’t want to write, but because I was busy experiencing life and not giving it enough reflection. Now a part of the life experiencing included movie watching.
I recently realized that some movies have interesting common highlights that make them moving and long lasting, similar in a sense to romantic literature, with an emphasis on emotions and moral values, and the values of which will go beyond the current times. I think the fact that successful movies were able to convey some message that we can relate to is how they make us remember them.
For example, this movie Quiz Show, a historical film depicting the quiz show scandal back in the 1960s, tapped into some most common sins of men, greed and temptation towards wealth and fame, and illustrated how emotionally powerful it can be to be honest, to tell the truth. You don’t “get away” by telling the truth, but you can “live with” it peacefully if you did. This movie has one of my favorite speeches, “I have stood on the shoulders of life and I have never got down into the dirt to build, to erect a foundation of my own. I have flown too high on borrowed wings. Everything came too easy. ” Another movie, made by Woody Allen, called Blue Jasmine, used vanity, another common sin, as the theme of the film, and give the audience a great lesson that dishonesty can take you no where.
Another interesting theme is truth seeking. A few good men and Conviction are great examples of finding the truth out in and outside of a court room, the courage and persistence of challenging authority deserve more kudos than they’ve ever gotten. The former also included a segment of great courtroom speech by Jack Nicolson, one of my favorite actors. In a similar fashion, Scent of a woman, successfully impressed the audience by the speech given by the actor Al Pacino emphasizing the importance of integrity: the path one should choose that leads to character.
Into the Wild is a great example of seeking oneself from nature, seeking joy and peace from nature, and above all, believing the magic and following your dream. Just like what the actor Robin Williams in the movie Dead Poet Society advised the students in an elite prep school, Carpe Diem. Life goes away in a blink of the eye, grab it and appreciate it while you can. And I further advise please follow your dream with some premeditative planning, especially when safety is involved.
Love and forgiveness lie in the foundation of a happy living. The lawyer in Compulsion (1959) took advantage of this and was able to save two boys from being hanged, and he said: if there’s any way of destroying hatred, and all that goes with it, it’s not through evil and hatred and cruelty. It’s through charity, love, understanding, one of my favorite defense speech ever. Good Will Hunting is a good example of loving yourself and forgiving yourself for something that isn’t your fault. Forgiveness can lead to love, which will shed positive light to you and others.
Over the past years when my foundations were weak, I put myself in situations where my character was being tested, I fell most of the times. When I looked back, I blamed myself for what I did, blamed my family for what I experienced when I was younger, labeled my childhood as an emotionally neglected one. I was full of resentment towards myself and towards my past, wishing history could be rewritten. But where is this resentment and holding on to the past leading me to? A person with negative energy. And I don’t want that any more. I want light, and I want to love. And this will not start by a slogan, but by deliberate choices and actions, that are different from what you used to.
Life has no meaning to begin with, but you create meaning to it;
Life is empty to begin with, but you put memories and insights into it.
Life is tiny and fragile, protect it, cherish it and embrace it.
Dear fellows, you are not remembered by how you look like, but what you did and how you inspired. In this movie made of your life where you are an indispensable actor, I encourage you to pause and look around, see where you are going and enjoy the little things.